Antalya 25.8 Backport of #92250 - Reduce INSERT/merges memory usage with wide parts for very wide tables by enabling adaptive write buffers

[mkmkme]

25.8.15 Backport of ClickHouse#92250 - Reduce INSERT/merges memory usage with wide parts for very wide tables by enabling adaptive write buffers

Same as #1341, but for Antalya 25.8

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• Performance Improvement

Changelog entry (a user-readable short description of the changes that goes to CHANGELOG.md):

Reduce INSERT/merges memory usage with wide parts for very wide tables by enabling adaptive write buffers. Add support of adaptive write buffers for encrypted disks (ClickHouse#92250 by @azat)

Documentation entry for user-facing changes

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[mkmkme]

Couldn't run the tests locally because I'm testing with debug by default and the test has an explicit no-debug in it. Will rely on the CI. But the PR landed without any issues, so I don't expect anything to go wrong. Will self-verify once CI finishes